Motivation is the pure driving force behind life-enhancing change. It comes from knowing exactly what you want to do and having an insatiable desire to do what’s necessary in order to get it. It keeps your dreams on track for it is the power of motivation that keeps you going no matter what.Here is 5 top tips to help you go extreme with your motivation:
1. Create a vision board and fill it with images of only your desired goals. The car you've been wanting to own, the house you want, the area where you want to live yes, they’re the standard ones that everyone tends to pick. Others can be images of holiday destinations you want to go on, those first-class travel airline tickets, clothes you want to buy and wear. Whatever you can think of that gets you feeling good and your heart racing.
2. GET MAD. If you really want to change your life for the better then get angry at where you’re at and the position you're in now. Having a positive attitude towards change isn't the only thing what’s needed and it won’t create a strong desire within you. So ask yourself: “Why do I want or need to change?” Is it because you’re HONESTLY FED UP with debt? Does your job DRIVEING YOU CRAZY? Is your life BOREING AND PRECITABLE? Are you SICK AND TIRED of doing the same thing week after week? Are you BEYOND BORED by the dull, unhappy people you're associating with? THEN GET ANGRY ABOUT IT. I mean REALLY ANGRY. Write everything down, the irritating, miserable lot of it that makes every day a dull one to the end of your final days. IS THAT WHAT YOU REALLY WANT?
3. Speaking of final days, start to really appreciate the value of time and I mean really appreciate. Time is one of the most precious things you have, but keep in mind your time is NOT A RENEWABLE resource. You can either use it to the best you know how or squander it. If you want to create positive change you’re going to have to invest a lot of your time to make it happen. Start to by reducing the time you waste on what I like to call the do with outs: Television, newspapers, lazy days, weekends spent at the mall, partying, visiting all the family and friends – these WILL NOT help you get what you want, in fact they rob time from you. Precious time that you can use much more effectively by spending it with YOU. Remember this: You have a certain amount of time here on this great Earth. But it’s how you use this time you have that counts and matters. So make every day count and that means starting NOW, NOT TOMORROW, NOW.
4. Conformity. Are you a mindless little puppy who’s too timid to pursue your own way? Do you follow where everyone else goes, doing what everyone else does therefore, who gets the same amount of happiness as all the other little puppies? Really, is this YOU? Are you too scared to be different than all of the other puppies because they wouldn't appreciate it if you decided to follow a different road? So you simply trot along following all the other puppies because if they’re doing it then that’s how it is, em I right? But if you follow what everyone else does you’ll just get what everyone else gets and becomes. Do you want to be a frigid, scared little puppy who follows all the other puppies? Or do you want to be a LEADER, a WARRIOR who holds the courage to be uniquely you and to do what you want and make every one of your dreams happen? If so then this means you have to be more like a lion than a cute puppy. Do you really want to be a puppy? I mean, haven’t we got enough puppies to begin with?
5. Fear your fear. Fear is the great force that can stop you in your tracks and steal your dreams from every happening. But I'm here to tell you it can only do this if you allow it. Are you going to let this powerful feeling tread on your goals and dreams, steal your happiness and rob your spirit? Imagine this thought taunting your final days: “I didn't do the things I wanted because I based my life on fear and did not live”. And by then, it’ll be too late to fight fear. Take charge and don't let fear spoil your life and dreams and start taking action – now! For without action, we are nothing.
Thursday, September 29, 2011
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
How To Attract Everything You Desire Effortlessly and Easily!
How To Attract Everything You Desire Effortlessly and Easily!
1. Create an environment that naturally pulls you forward so things like commitment and discipline are optional. Being pulled forward is attractive but pushing forward is not.
2. Over respond to every event. By over responding instead of overacting, you evolve which is very attractive.
3. Build reserves in every area of your life. Having enough is not nearly enough for you to be Irresistible and Attractive. Stop running your life on adrenaline and learn to relax.
4. Add more value just for the joy of it. When you add value just because you enjoy it, people are naturally attracted to you and what you are doing.
5. Market your talents with no regrets. If you are embarrassed about what you do , you won’t be very attractive.
6. Become irresistible attractive to yourself. How can you attract others if you don’t feel irresistible attractive to yourself?
7. Get a fulfilling life, not just an impressive lifestyle. A great lifestyle is attractive, lifestyles can be seductive.
8. Deliver twice what you promise.When you consistently deliver more than was expected, new customers are drawn to you.
9. You must unhook yourself from the future. Attraction works only the present, not in the future.
10. Eliminate delays. Time is precious and delays are unattractive.
11. Get your personal needs met, once and for all. If you have unmet needs, you will attract others going through the same thing. Needs are not optional!
12. Tolerate nothing. When you put up with something, it costs you. Costs are expensive and unattractive.
13. Show others how to please you. Don’t make them guess.
14. Endorse your worst weakness and shadow. When you accept and honor the worst part of yourself you are free and more accepting of others.
15. Sensitize yourself. The more you feel, the more you notice and respond to the many subtle opportunities in the present.
16. Perfect your environment. Create an environment that brings out your brilliance versus one that drains you.
17. See how perfect the present really is especially when it is clearly not.
18. Orient exclusively around your values. When you spend your days doing what fulfills you, you are a magnet for attraction.
19. Simplify everything. Abandon the non essentials and leave room for you to attract.
20. Master your craft. Being the best at what you do is the easiest way to become successful.
21. Recognize and tell the truth. The truth is the most attractive thing of all, and it requires skill and awareness.
22. Be more human. When you are genuine, you are attractive.
Are You A Coaching Candidate?
1. Do you spend your day putting out fires?
2. Do you have any concerns about your business running at maximum profitability?
3. Do you run your business on the edge?
4. Do the same problems continually resurface?
5. Do you have difficulty finding someone you trust who can give you an objective viewpoint and bounce ideas off of?
6. Is your business running you?
7. Do you find that you are unable to make the most of all the opportunities in your life?
8. Do you experience roller coaster highs and lows in your business?
9. Do you have a lone ranger lifestyle?
10. Do you allow your goals and purpose to get sidetracked?
11. Do you lack having a clear, measurable action plan to fulfill your goals?
12. Do you lack structure?
13. Do you lack inner fulfillment?
14. Do you spend most of your day working "in" your business instead of "on" it?
15. Are you a workaholic?
16. Are you experiencing a lack of balance in your life and business?
17. Are you committed to growing yourself and your company?
18. Are you coachable? (Are you willing to hear and act on another's person's viewpoint?)
19. Do you lack a clear financial plan for your future?
20. Are you willing to be truthful and restore your integrity?
* If you answered yes to more than three of these questions you can benefit from success coach Daniel J Skinner.
Questions A Daniel Skinner May Ask You:
* What five opportunities are you leaving on the table?
* How might you sabotage our professional relationship?
* How have you been motivated in the past to reach difficult goals or make difficult decisions? How can we best utilize that motivation now?
* How would you do this differently if you were willing to let it be easy?
* What would happen if you showed up ten times more bolder this week in every aspect of your life?
* What are the 10 things you are tolerating or putting up with that are preventing you from performing at your best?
Answer these questions honestly. In not answering honestly you only hurt yourself.
Written by: Daniel Jay Skinner
1. Create an environment that naturally pulls you forward so things like commitment and discipline are optional. Being pulled forward is attractive but pushing forward is not.
2. Over respond to every event. By over responding instead of overacting, you evolve which is very attractive.
3. Build reserves in every area of your life. Having enough is not nearly enough for you to be Irresistible and Attractive. Stop running your life on adrenaline and learn to relax.
4. Add more value just for the joy of it. When you add value just because you enjoy it, people are naturally attracted to you and what you are doing.
5. Market your talents with no regrets. If you are embarrassed about what you do , you won’t be very attractive.
6. Become irresistible attractive to yourself. How can you attract others if you don’t feel irresistible attractive to yourself?
7. Get a fulfilling life, not just an impressive lifestyle. A great lifestyle is attractive, lifestyles can be seductive.
8. Deliver twice what you promise.When you consistently deliver more than was expected, new customers are drawn to you.
9. You must unhook yourself from the future. Attraction works only the present, not in the future.
10. Eliminate delays. Time is precious and delays are unattractive.
11. Get your personal needs met, once and for all. If you have unmet needs, you will attract others going through the same thing. Needs are not optional!
12. Tolerate nothing. When you put up with something, it costs you. Costs are expensive and unattractive.
13. Show others how to please you. Don’t make them guess.
14. Endorse your worst weakness and shadow. When you accept and honor the worst part of yourself you are free and more accepting of others.
15. Sensitize yourself. The more you feel, the more you notice and respond to the many subtle opportunities in the present.
16. Perfect your environment. Create an environment that brings out your brilliance versus one that drains you.
17. See how perfect the present really is especially when it is clearly not.
18. Orient exclusively around your values. When you spend your days doing what fulfills you, you are a magnet for attraction.
19. Simplify everything. Abandon the non essentials and leave room for you to attract.
20. Master your craft. Being the best at what you do is the easiest way to become successful.
21. Recognize and tell the truth. The truth is the most attractive thing of all, and it requires skill and awareness.
22. Be more human. When you are genuine, you are attractive.
Are You A Coaching Candidate?
1. Do you spend your day putting out fires?
2. Do you have any concerns about your business running at maximum profitability?
3. Do you run your business on the edge?
4. Do the same problems continually resurface?
5. Do you have difficulty finding someone you trust who can give you an objective viewpoint and bounce ideas off of?
6. Is your business running you?
7. Do you find that you are unable to make the most of all the opportunities in your life?
8. Do you experience roller coaster highs and lows in your business?
9. Do you have a lone ranger lifestyle?
10. Do you allow your goals and purpose to get sidetracked?
11. Do you lack having a clear, measurable action plan to fulfill your goals?
12. Do you lack structure?
13. Do you lack inner fulfillment?
14. Do you spend most of your day working "in" your business instead of "on" it?
15. Are you a workaholic?
16. Are you experiencing a lack of balance in your life and business?
17. Are you committed to growing yourself and your company?
18. Are you coachable? (Are you willing to hear and act on another's person's viewpoint?)
19. Do you lack a clear financial plan for your future?
20. Are you willing to be truthful and restore your integrity?
* If you answered yes to more than three of these questions you can benefit from success coach Daniel J Skinner.
Questions A Daniel Skinner May Ask You:
* What five opportunities are you leaving on the table?
* How might you sabotage our professional relationship?
* How have you been motivated in the past to reach difficult goals or make difficult decisions? How can we best utilize that motivation now?
* How would you do this differently if you were willing to let it be easy?
* What would happen if you showed up ten times more bolder this week in every aspect of your life?
* What are the 10 things you are tolerating or putting up with that are preventing you from performing at your best?
Answer these questions honestly. In not answering honestly you only hurt yourself.
Written by: Daniel Jay Skinner
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